Do you believe that true love is never lost?
I am a 20 y/o female. A man (20) and I were in a relationship for 1 year. his best friend then passed away and he lost himself in life, no longer knowing what he wanted for himself. He then broke off the relationship saying that he just couldnt handle a serious relationship now. A month another the break up we had been talking and he invited himself over. he told me he missed me, thought about me often, still loved me, and was starting to regret his decision.
His entire family lives in TX.
He then went to TX, )which is half way across the country) for Christmas with his family. While he was there, he decided to move back to TX to live with his parents and brothers b/c he missed them so much. While he was in TX for about 1 month, we only talked once, on my birthday.
I thought he had moved on, gotten over me, and really just wanted to be casual friends that talked every now and then. When he returned to pack up this apartment and move, he asked me over to get my stuff and for dinner. We were just friendly at first, and then i told him i missed him. He said he never knew he would miss me this much when we broke up... that he thinks of me daily... and is sad. He said that he was planning on not moving, coming back from Christmas break and asking me back. But he said he cant live without his family right now, that he misses them too much.
We spent 2 days with each other packing, going out.... and reconnecting. We both agreed that if felt like we were back together as a couple (but without any sex) and that we both felt whole when we were with each other. He said he still loves me, that moving away is bitter sweet. He cried and said he didnt want anyone else to have me.... and that IF we are not meant to be that he will be jealous of the man who is meant for me b/c he is the luckiest man in the world. He said he may move back in a year, but he honestly doesnt know what will happen.
we are in love, and have so much respect and trust for each other. I feel like i have already met my husband and it is only a matter of time before the time is right for us to be together again. I know we both have individual growth to undergo.... and i want to complete that for myself....
He left for TX this morning.
Do you believe that true love is never lost? That some things are just "meant to be"???
His entire family lives in TX.
He then went to TX, )which is half way across the country) for Christmas with his family. While he was there, he decided to move back to TX to live with his parents and brothers b/c he missed them so much. While he was in TX for about 1 month, we only talked once, on my birthday.
I thought he had moved on, gotten over me, and really just wanted to be casual friends that talked every now and then. When he returned to pack up this apartment and move, he asked me over to get my stuff and for dinner. We were just friendly at first, and then i told him i missed him. He said he never knew he would miss me this much when we broke up... that he thinks of me daily... and is sad. He said that he was planning on not moving, coming back from Christmas break and asking me back. But he said he cant live without his family right now, that he misses them too much.
We spent 2 days with each other packing, going out.... and reconnecting. We both agreed that if felt like we were back together as a couple (but without any sex) and that we both felt whole when we were with each other. He said he still loves me, that moving away is bitter sweet. He cried and said he didnt want anyone else to have me.... and that IF we are not meant to be that he will be jealous of the man who is meant for me b/c he is the luckiest man in the world. He said he may move back in a year, but he honestly doesnt know what will happen.
we are in love, and have so much respect and trust for each other. I feel like i have already met my husband and it is only a matter of time before the time is right for us to be together again. I know we both have individual growth to undergo.... and i want to complete that for myself....
He left for TX this morning.
Do you believe that true love is never lost? That some things are just "meant to be"???
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Well it sounds like you have "something special". The very best part of your letter was when you stated you were together doing things but without any sex. That statement says a whole lot about the both of you. What I think you should do is pray about it. Let him go, don't chase him. He is at that age where he is turning into a man. If he starts calling you or comes back to you. I think you will have a GREAT MARRIAGE. You sound like a very nice girl with a level head on her shoulders. I will keep you in my prayers too.
Connie
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Connie
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