Things have been going great!No fights or anything lately...we've been getting along really well! weve been dating 6 months. Until today, he texted me "we need to talk about us" out of the blue! I asked him to come over after school (i stayed home sick) and he said ok. then, he told me his mom wouldn't let him, since apparently, he too stayed home. so i called him, he told me he needed to talk in person, and i was like why? "i don't wanna talk about it over the phone" "are you breaking up w me?" "not neccesarily..."
I don't know what any of this sh!t means1 I can't get my mind off of it and i have to wait till i see him at school tomorrow. I really really don't know why he would break things off w me! help? what does this mean??
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Well maybe by now you know the answer to your question. By what you said it sounds like he may want to break up or slow down the relationship. You mention that your both still in school so I am assuming your probably between 15 to 17 years of age. Assuming I am correct on your age let me ask you this question. You say you have been dating for 6 months. Are you two sexually active? If you are sexually active this is a BIG problem. Once you start it is very very difficult to stop. When kids date they should keep their hands to themselves, date in groups don't go off by yourselves. If you are the age I indicated don't feel to bad there will be many many more guys you will think you love. You really don't know much about love until your in your mid 20's. The person you think is cool today you won't think he is marriage material when your in your 20's. Take your life slow, enjoy being a teenage girl it is a once in a life time period. Don't try to grow up so soon. When you grow up there are loads of responsibilities, you need to get a job and ear a living, pay car insurance, buy your clothes. The list goes on and on. Whatever you do the most important thing for you to feel good about yourself is do not become sexually active with your boyfriends. You will feel used in the end.
Good Luck to you,
Connie
http://conniescolumn.blogspot.com
Saturday, February 26, 2011
Saturday, February 5, 2011
Etiquette for drinking during a date?
Etiquette for drinking during a date?
I was wondering if it's acceptable manners to have a drink on a first date when you know your date can't have one. I usually have a beer or two during the date over lunch or dinner to relax a little, and I find that the girl usually does as well. It's just I am going on a date who is on-call and can't drink. I asked her if she wanted to go out at another time when she wasn't on-call, and she said it's fine. I doubt she's using it as an excuse to leave early or anything because she asked me out. Anyway, I am sure she can't drink while she's on-call, so would it be rude of me to ask her if she minded that I order a beer or would it be rude to have a drink? I mean most people will say it's ok to order a drink to be polite, and she will probably say it's ok regardless of how she feels about it. So is it rude to order a beer knowing she can't have alcohol? I don't think it's too bad, but your opinions please.
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You sound like a very thoughtful person to even consider how your date feels, that is really nice. I don't see anything wrong with you having a beer. Like you said, just ask your date would you be offended if I had a beer? I believe her answer would be "Of course not, go ahead".
Connie
http://conniescolumn.blogspot.com
I was wondering if it's acceptable manners to have a drink on a first date when you know your date can't have one. I usually have a beer or two during the date over lunch or dinner to relax a little, and I find that the girl usually does as well. It's just I am going on a date who is on-call and can't drink. I asked her if she wanted to go out at another time when she wasn't on-call, and she said it's fine. I doubt she's using it as an excuse to leave early or anything because she asked me out. Anyway, I am sure she can't drink while she's on-call, so would it be rude of me to ask her if she minded that I order a beer or would it be rude to have a drink? I mean most people will say it's ok to order a drink to be polite, and she will probably say it's ok regardless of how she feels about it. So is it rude to order a beer knowing she can't have alcohol? I don't think it's too bad, but your opinions please.
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You sound like a very thoughtful person to even consider how your date feels, that is really nice. I don't see anything wrong with you having a beer. Like you said, just ask your date would you be offended if I had a beer? I believe her answer would be "Of course not, go ahead".
Connie
http://conniescolumn.blogspot.com
Etiquette for drinking during a date?
I was wondering if it's acceptable manners to have a drink on a first date when you know your date can't have one. I usually have a beer or two during the date over lunch or dinner to relax a little, and I find that the girl usually does as well. It's just I am going on a date who is on-call and can't drink. I asked her if she wanted to go out at another time when she wasn't on-call, and she said it's fine. I doubt she's using it as an excuse to leave early or anything because she asked me out. Anyway, I am sure she can't drink while she's on-call, so would it be rude of me to ask her if she minded that I order a beer or would it be rude to have a drink? I mean most people will say it's ok to order a drink to be polite, and she will probably say it's ok regardless of how she feels about it. So is it rude to order a beer knowing she can't have alcohol? I don't think it's too bad, but your opinions please.
Best Answer - Chosen by Voters
You sound like a very thoughtful person to even consider how your date feels, that is really nice. I don't see anything wrong with you having a beer. Like you said, just ask your date would you be offended if I had a beer? I believe her answer would be "Of course not, go ahead".
Connie
http://conniescolumn.blogspot.com
Best Answer - Chosen by Voters
You sound like a very thoughtful person to even consider how your date feels, that is really nice. I don't see anything wrong with you having a beer. Like you said, just ask your date would you be offended if I had a beer? I believe her answer would be "Of course not, go ahead".
Connie
http://conniescolumn.blogspot.com
Thursday, February 3, 2011
UFO Hovers over Jerusalem's "Dome of the Rock Shrine"
A mystery UFO was filmed hovering over Jerusalem from four different angles.
A glowing orb filmed hovering over the skyline of Jerusalem has left UFO experts dumbfounded.
The circular object was seen descending slowly over the holy city's iconic Dome of the Rock before flickering and shooting skyward like a rocket. Similar clips have been seen before and debunked as hoaxes. But this latest sighting has proved more difficult to dismiss -- as it was recorded from four different perspectives.
Some UFO enthusiasts believe the videos -- which have taken the Internet by storm -- are final proof that aliens exist, while others say the unidentified object was the Hebrew god Elohim.
Adding to the mystery is the fact that flying over the Dome of the Rock landmark -- an ancient Islamic shrine -- is forbidden.
Two witnesses at the Armon Hanatziv panoramic lookout near Mount Zion filmed the object at 1am on Saturday. A little after one minute into the clip, the object descends slowly, almost to ground level.
The craft hovers there for a short while and then flickers before shooting upwards at an incredible speed.
Former Ministry of Defense UFO investigator Nick Pope said: "If these are real, they are some of the most incredible videos ever shot.
"If they are not, then this is a very well-planned and coordinated hoax designed to eliminate elements of doubt.
"The way it shoots up into the sky suggests it is unmanned, because no living thing could survive those kinds of G-forces.
"We know the Israeli army has some very high-tech drones at its disposal. If this is one, it is one of the most advanced pieces of technology created by man."
Another set of observers also uploaded their mobile phone footage to YouTube on Saturday.
They wrote: "Have fun debunking this one." In their video, the American tourists can be heard saying: "We've seen them in Mississippi like this."
Two other clips filmed from different viewpoints were posted online. Skeptics have noted the views come from perspectives that could make nearby objects seem farther away and faster-moving. Others say the whole thing was faked and have prepared several alternative versions of the videos which they say prove they are not real.
These include stabilized versions in which the brightness and contrast have been increased, which they claim highlights a major flaw of perspective.
Another is motion-tracked, and apparently shows the UFO "bouncing around like crazy".
A glowing orb filmed hovering over the skyline of Jerusalem has left UFO experts dumbfounded.
The circular object was seen descending slowly over the holy city's iconic Dome of the Rock before flickering and shooting skyward like a rocket. Similar clips have been seen before and debunked as hoaxes. But this latest sighting has proved more difficult to dismiss -- as it was recorded from four different perspectives.
Some UFO enthusiasts believe the videos -- which have taken the Internet by storm -- are final proof that aliens exist, while others say the unidentified object was the Hebrew god Elohim.
Adding to the mystery is the fact that flying over the Dome of the Rock landmark -- an ancient Islamic shrine -- is forbidden.
Two witnesses at the Armon Hanatziv panoramic lookout near Mount Zion filmed the object at 1am on Saturday. A little after one minute into the clip, the object descends slowly, almost to ground level.
The craft hovers there for a short while and then flickers before shooting upwards at an incredible speed.
Former Ministry of Defense UFO investigator Nick Pope said: "If these are real, they are some of the most incredible videos ever shot.
"If they are not, then this is a very well-planned and coordinated hoax designed to eliminate elements of doubt.
"The way it shoots up into the sky suggests it is unmanned, because no living thing could survive those kinds of G-forces.
"We know the Israeli army has some very high-tech drones at its disposal. If this is one, it is one of the most advanced pieces of technology created by man."
Another set of observers also uploaded their mobile phone footage to YouTube on Saturday.
They wrote: "Have fun debunking this one." In their video, the American tourists can be heard saying: "We've seen them in Mississippi like this."
Two other clips filmed from different viewpoints were posted online. Skeptics have noted the views come from perspectives that could make nearby objects seem farther away and faster-moving. Others say the whole thing was faked and have prepared several alternative versions of the videos which they say prove they are not real.
These include stabilized versions in which the brightness and contrast have been increased, which they claim highlights a major flaw of perspective.
Another is motion-tracked, and apparently shows the UFO "bouncing around like crazy".
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