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Can I make some one forgets about their love?
they are broken up now and he is married. Can I make her forget him with my love, or no matter what I do she will always remember him coz he is the first love??
p.s she loves me, I'm sure of that. And I really really LOVE her but I hate it when she remember some details about him and her eyes tear!!!!!
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Every one has that first person they thought they were in love with, even at a young age. Evidently she really loves you or she would not have married you. She should not be talking about him any more. What you might want to do is tell her that you love her very much, you know that she cared deeply for him at one time, that you too had someone you really cared for but all that is the past. We now need to get on with our lives. With time it will be unimportant to her.
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Girls only, how would you feel?
Girls only, how would you feel?
My school will soon be selling roses that are accompanied with a fern and they are both wrapped in tissue paper and tied with a ribbon. There is a girl I like and she knows it but I just am not so sure if she is interested because she seems to always be busy during break which is when I ask her to spend time with me. Anyways, the roses that my school will be selling are delivered in school and this is where I need a girl's opinion. I want to send this girl some roses but will she feel embarrassed when she receives the roses in class or maybe even angry because she might not be interested. I wanted a girl's opinion on this so I can see whether sending roses would be a good idea or not.
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I always tell the girl that she doesn't have to spend break with me if she doesn't want to but she said that it is not that but that she has to see whether or not she is busy at break. She even asked me where I will be at break but I guess she ended up busy. I've asked her five times to break but she just cannot make it each time. I caught her one time during break and she told me that she had to go to some classroom and work on something but she said fast and was losing her breath so I told her while she was explaining to quickly go where she is needed so that she doesn't end up in trouble or late,etc.
2 months ago
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I say, go ahead and send her the flowers. Don't write anything mushy on the note, make it very simple. Something like...."Just because of who you are", I thought you deserved this beautiful flower today because your so special. A girl doesn't get flowers very many times in her life so I think she would think it was quite thoughtful of you, but don't make it mushy or it will turn her off because she doesn't really know you that well.
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My school will soon be selling roses that are accompanied with a fern and they are both wrapped in tissue paper and tied with a ribbon. There is a girl I like and she knows it but I just am not so sure if she is interested because she seems to always be busy during break which is when I ask her to spend time with me. Anyways, the roses that my school will be selling are delivered in school and this is where I need a girl's opinion. I want to send this girl some roses but will she feel embarrassed when she receives the roses in class or maybe even angry because she might not be interested. I wanted a girl's opinion on this so I can see whether sending roses would be a good idea or not.
Additional Details
I always tell the girl that she doesn't have to spend break with me if she doesn't want to but she said that it is not that but that she has to see whether or not she is busy at break. She even asked me where I will be at break but I guess she ended up busy. I've asked her five times to break but she just cannot make it each time. I caught her one time during break and she told me that she had to go to some classroom and work on something but she said fast and was losing her breath so I told her while she was explaining to quickly go where she is needed so that she doesn't end up in trouble or late,etc.
2 months ago
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I say, go ahead and send her the flowers. Don't write anything mushy on the note, make it very simple. Something like...."Just because of who you are", I thought you deserved this beautiful flower today because your so special. A girl doesn't get flowers very many times in her life so I think she would think it was quite thoughtful of you, but don't make it mushy or it will turn her off because she doesn't really know you that well.
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He says he won't date untill junior year, should I still go for it?
He says he won't date untill junior year, should I still go for it?
I really like this guy. He hangs out in my group of friends so I tend to see him once or twice a week. I'm not sure how he feels about me, but he looks deep into my eyes when we are talking and tends to laugh at stuff I say. He swears he wont date until hes a junior (we're sophomores now), but I really like him. I want to ask him to our schools Sadie Hawkins dance, but I'm not sure if he'd take that the wrong way, like I'm trying to push him or something. The other night, i felt like he was ignoring me and he wasn't hanging our with our group that much. I kinda felt like something was bothering him. I was really upset over this. Should I go for it? or drop him? If I should go for it, any advice on how to? I've only had one bf before, so this is still kinda new to me. Thanks for the help!
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If I'm not mistaken, Sadie Hawkins dances always allow the girl to ask the boy right? If that is still the way it is then sure, ask him. Just say it like this " You know, the Sadie Hawkins dance is on such a such date and I wanted to see if you would like to go to the dance with me? He will either say yes or no.
Don't chase boys though, they really don't like that. The fun for them is trying to get you to like them.
Good luck, let me know how you do.
Connie
Don't chase boys though, they really don't like that. The fun for them is trying to get you to like them.
Good luck, let me know how you do.
Connie
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Why can't I get him off my mind?
Why can't I get him off my mind?
First off, I'm a girl, the picture i put up is just for fun. When I was in middle school up until now, I've had a huge crush on a guy. We went on a few dates, I knew he liked me but he never asked me out. He would just stare at me and would almost kiss me but then he would blush and turn away. The thing is that since we graduated from high school I can't stop thinking about him. I've moved on but he has always been on my mind. Lately I've had lots of dreams about him and I just don't know why. Why do you think this is? Please be nice...thanks :D
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It seems like something he did or the type of person he was really stood out in your mind, something as being very special. Why not call him up and just say, HI, I was thinking about you and wanted to see what you have been doing in your life. Then let's see where it might go from there. Good Luck.
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Please anwer this is a serious Question
Please answer, serious question!?
im 11 and i like writing poetry, i wrote this one off the bat, rate it from 1-10 10 for good and 1 that i suck, remember im 11
no one knows,
what you dont show,
your tears at night,
and your fears in sight
the pressure of being beautiful
it makes you feel horrible
the days go by slower and slower
and still yet,
nobody knows,
no one knows,
what you dont show,
your tears at night,
and your fears in sight
the pressure of being beautiful
it makes you feel horrible
the days go by slower and slower
and still yet,
nobody knows,
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Hi,This is Connie. Well, I have to say, if you are really 11 years old and wrote this poetry it is absolutely great. It seems like you have a very good mind. Make up a pretty book and put all of your writings in it so you can have them as a keep sake or maybe later in life if you would like to publish them you could do so. I am not just saying this but I would give this an "11".
Keep on writing, your very talented.
Connie
Do you believe that true love is never lost?
Do you believe that true love is never lost?
I am a 20 y/o female. A man (20) and I were in a relationship for 1 year. his best friend then passed away and he lost himself in life, no longer knowing what he wanted for himself. He then broke off the relationship saying that he just couldnt handle a serious relationship now. A month another the break up we had been talking and he invited himself over. he told me he missed me, thought about me often, still loved me, and was starting to regret his decision.
His entire family lives in TX.
He then went to TX, )which is half way across the country) for Christmas with his family. While he was there, he decided to move back to TX to live with his parents and brothers b/c he missed them so much. While he was in TX for about 1 month, we only talked once, on my birthday.
I thought he had moved on, gotten over me, and really just wanted to be casual friends that talked every now and then. When he returned to pack up this apartment and move, he asked me over to get my stuff and for dinner. We were just friendly at first, and then i told him i missed him. He said he never knew he would miss me this much when we broke up... that he thinks of me daily... and is sad. He said that he was planning on not moving, coming back from Christmas break and asking me back. But he said he cant live without his family right now, that he misses them too much.
We spent 2 days with each other packing, going out.... and reconnecting. We both agreed that if felt like we were back together as a couple (but without any sex) and that we both felt whole when we were with each other. He said he still loves me, that moving away is bitter sweet. He cried and said he didnt want anyone else to have me.... and that IF we are not meant to be that he will be jealous of the man who is meant for me b/c he is the luckiest man in the world. He said he may move back in a year, but he honestly doesnt know what will happen.
we are in love, and have so much respect and trust for each other. I feel like i have already met my husband and it is only a matter of time before the time is right for us to be together again. I know we both have individual growth to undergo.... and i want to complete that for myself....
He left for TX this morning.
Do you believe that true love is never lost? That some things are just "meant to be"???
His entire family lives in TX.
He then went to TX, )which is half way across the country) for Christmas with his family. While he was there, he decided to move back to TX to live with his parents and brothers b/c he missed them so much. While he was in TX for about 1 month, we only talked once, on my birthday.
I thought he had moved on, gotten over me, and really just wanted to be casual friends that talked every now and then. When he returned to pack up this apartment and move, he asked me over to get my stuff and for dinner. We were just friendly at first, and then i told him i missed him. He said he never knew he would miss me this much when we broke up... that he thinks of me daily... and is sad. He said that he was planning on not moving, coming back from Christmas break and asking me back. But he said he cant live without his family right now, that he misses them too much.
We spent 2 days with each other packing, going out.... and reconnecting. We both agreed that if felt like we were back together as a couple (but without any sex) and that we both felt whole when we were with each other. He said he still loves me, that moving away is bitter sweet. He cried and said he didnt want anyone else to have me.... and that IF we are not meant to be that he will be jealous of the man who is meant for me b/c he is the luckiest man in the world. He said he may move back in a year, but he honestly doesnt know what will happen.
we are in love, and have so much respect and trust for each other. I feel like i have already met my husband and it is only a matter of time before the time is right for us to be together again. I know we both have individual growth to undergo.... and i want to complete that for myself....
He left for TX this morning.
Do you believe that true love is never lost? That some things are just "meant to be"???
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Well it sounds like you have "something special". The very best part of your letter was when you stated you were together doing things but without any sex. That statement says a whole lot about the both of you. What I think you should do is pray about it. Let him go, don't chase him. He is at that age where he is turning into a man. If he starts calling you or comes back to you. I think you will have a GREAT MARRIAGE. You sound like a very nice girl with a level head on her shoulders. I will keep you in my prayers too.
Connie
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